I was in a restaurant recently with a friend of mine. It was a Friday night and as this restaurant is particularly popular, it was a busy night at the restaurant and staff were clearly run off their feet. After being seated by the waitress and giving our drinks orders we proceeded to peruse the menu and ordered our meals. We were promptly served our entrees and second round of drinks and we consumed these gladly. The conversation was flowing freely so we weren’t entirely concerned that it was taking a while for our main meals to be served. But, after about half an hour we began to notice that many customers who had been seated after us were being served their mains before us.
“Excuse me miss” we called to one waitress, “we were just wondering how much longer our mains will be?” The waitress promised to follow this up for us and off she went to the kitchen to check.
“There’s a backlog at the kitchen,” she informed us, “You meals will be out shortly”
However, shortly was not so short and after another hungry twenty minutes it was time to ask again, but this time using a different waitress. Again, we were promised it would be followed up. A few moments later our new waitress proceeded to inform us that there had been a mix up and that the order had not been placed with the chefs in the kitchen at all. “I’m really sorry” she said, “This is entirely our fault but we will need to take your orders again.” What?! What had she said?? No, it wasn’t the bit about the mix up, it was that small five letter word that had managed to escape her lips during the explanation, “sorry”. Such a small word, and yet this, and the taking of responsibility was all it had taken to placate us and sure enough our orders were subsequently delivered with speed. It was a bonus that during our meal we were visited by this same waitress and informed our meals, minus the alcohol, would be on the house, and that once again they were really “sorry” for the mix up. However, we had already decided we would be back, restaurants make mistakes all the time, it’s the way they recover from them that can make a difference between keeping a customer, and losing one.
On a recent visit to the United States, I was interested to note the differences between the service cultures that exist on both sides of the Atlantic.
When you make a decision in your business, do you think it through from a customer’s perspective? The person most familiar with your business is YOU which can often mean that we as business owners are most complacent when it comes to communicating messages to customers. We become so used to doing things a certain way or familar with a policy that we assume our customers will automatically understand what we mean. Not always the case.
What is the difference between a Good Bartender or a Bad Bartender? We’ve all been upset at poor service but equally I know when I get good service, I remember it! So what are the things that annoy or impress us?
Readers to this blog will know how much I value and seek good service in our ever-expanding hospitality industry, but it seems to be getting harder and harder to find…then just when you think you have found it, just when you think this is great service, he’s done everything right, I have the correct (and hot) meal in front of me, he’s ensured my drink is topped up and then….just when I’m about to plan how to report such exemplary service and even name the establishment in this Blog, the waiter decides that his level of service has not gone far enough and as he’s about to turn and leave, he looks straight at me, bids me Bon Apetite and then slaps me on the back!!! Yes, you read correctly, this was not a tap, a touch, or a brush, this was a thumping great slap as if to beat me into assuring him that I would indeed enjoy my meal!